The Language of lurrveeee...

Ladies- you might find this topic hard to resist:)
Gentlemen- you might learn a thing or two...just like you I do not have this whole love thing figured out.

Ok- let me get started...
I for one love reading...as you may have gathered- a book in the bookshop caught my eye-

I am at the stage in my life where i am questioning a lot of things, like love, money and how to keep myself growing in all departments of life ect ect...

Soooooo you have been in a relationship for lets say four years-

We all know by now that the "honeymoon phase" only lasts- longest 2 years...lol, so what then after that? This book has all solutions trust me...

namely (Men, this is where you pay attention...lol)

 

Words of Affirmation This is when you say how nice your spouse looks, or how great the dinner tasted. These words will also build your mate's self image and confidence.

Quality Time Some spouses believe that being together, doing things together and focusing in on one another is the best way to show love. If this is your partner's love language, turn off the TV now and then and give one another some undivided attention.

Gifts It is universal in human cultures to give gifts. They don't have to be expensive to send a powerful message of love. Spouses who forget a birthday or anniversary or who never give gifts to someone who truly enjoys gift giving will find themselves with a spouse who feels neglected and unloved.

Acts of Service Discovering how you can best do something for your spouse will require time and creativity. These acts of service like vacuuming, hanging a bird feeder, planting a garden, etc., need to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love.

Physical Touch Sometimes just stroking your spouse's back, holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need.

I must admit sometimes women also forget to do the above mentioned things- ( I am brushing up as we speak)

If you do this hopefully you will never get bored and you will always be - for a lack of a better word- "satisfied" ...

i find that by establishing your own language of love takes you a long way...